Originally Posted by MissSadieD
There is no future with him. This was his second chance and he blew it by doing the exact same thing he did the first time.
Than what you wrote to her was incorrect, you are ending it with him, that does not necessarily mean he is ending it with her.
You have a right to be angry, but she doesn't owe you anything, she did not break faith with you, your husband did, he is the one who you should be directing your anger to. You are doing the usual thing of focusing too much on the other woman (person).