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Old 11-19-2013, 10:04 PM
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Default People Who Are Intentionally "Weak" Or "Lazy" Turn Me Off

*sigh* This may sound weird, but it is how I feel:

I LOVE PEOPLE with ALL kinds of bodies even those with a lot of body fat are absolutely beautiful and adorable to me.~ ^_^

The issue I have with some people is: when they are intentionally "weak" or "lazy", that is a turn off to me.~

No matter how skinny or fat you are: if you go out with me and just sit down all the time watching me do all kinds of physical things rather than doing them with me because "you don't feel like it", eventually that's really going to turn me off towards you.~

Fat people don't disgust me, people who ride around on scooters to substitute all walking for no other reason than because they are "lazy" are not appealing in a romantic way to me.~

People who are "weak" because they didn't want to put in the effort to becoming stronger and healthier are not appealing to me.~

I don't mean "weak" as in "doesn't lift a lot of weight" or in "tiny muscles", I mean "weak" as in: they are unhealthy because of poor diet, no exercise at all, and they make no effort at all to change these things.~

It isn't about "having a lot of body fat", it's about "making no effort to be healthy in any way at all".~

Does any one else feel this way about these "kinds" of people?~
Love yourself, you are beautiful!~ ^_^

*Believe in yourself, you can do anything*!~ ^_^

Appreciate every thing, every thing is precious.~

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