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Old 11-18-2013, 09:41 AM
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Ok, so if you agree with that advice, like I do, can you see why I'm saying she has to stop, or her behaviour needs to be stopped and everything put on a healthy level that isnt controlling or harmful to anyone? Once you've established these boundaries and ground rules and she knows that threatening to dump you every two minutes isn't acceptable, making unrealistic demands about how and who you date, making public scenes etc is all off the cards, she will be forced to either communicate effectively and appropriately or live with the burn. Not tolerating that behaviour will prompt her to actually deal with her issues rather than hiding in her currently very small comfort zone. At the moment, believe it or not, you are halting any progress she could make.
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