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Old 07-03-2009, 07:11 AM
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"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart. Try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Love the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, love along some distant day into the answer."
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very nice quote. I will try to remember that as well.
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Old 07-03-2009, 12:30 PM
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I am truly sorry that you feel it would be ok to have any kind of relationship with this person. In reading your posts I feel that you have lost your own voice in your relationship with him. I can understand that you want to see the best in people but sometimes there just is not. Being in a poly relationship with him I do feel would be dangerous because you do not trust him. If he does not share your views and has to work at it then please move on. You have defended him on no real basis. You are trained, plain and simple. Please find your voice before it is too late. I do not think this person is right for you. Thank you for listening.
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