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Old 11-16-2013, 12:58 AM
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Questions:

How is running ramshod over someone else's feelings loving?

How is being inattentive to your current partners feelings and needs loving?

How is creating conflict with your insensitivity to your partners feelings and needs good parenting?

How is creating conflict due to not upholding your current agreements with a partner loving?

How is creating conflict due to not upholding your current agreements with a partner good parenting?

Sigh.

I don't know hardly anything about Aspergers. But I do know about depression and I do know about NRE.

His behavior is NOT loving. It is NOT responsible. It is NOT ethical. It is NOT reasonable.
Depression and NRE are NOT an excuse for treating your partner as disposable.

I TOTALLY understand going poly "the wrong way" cause I did it.
It has SERIOUS consequences.

I wish it were more possible to warn others-when someone is rushing headlong into a relationship with you-without considering their CURRENT responsibilities it's a CLEAR SIGN that they are NOT responsible enough to handle multiple relationships.
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