My husband and I are new to the website but not to the lifestyle. We've been "swinging" for about a year, but it's more than just that. It would be nice to know people and talk to people who understand us and won't judge us. I can't my friends or family about it because they wouldn't understand or think that we're nasty, which we aren't. My husband and I love each other very much but we know how to separate love from sex and like the attention of other poeple. We are both still very young and don't want to restrict each other from growing, exploring, and learning. I am 22 and he is 26. We live in Houston, TX and right now it is 5:42pm.