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Old 11-07-2013, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post

And these will be no-PIV trips, but the batch of trips after that might be PIV's? Are you personally hoping that'll be permitted soon? Like, real soon, or what? a month? a year? Do you think you'll ever need it to be permitted?
Kevin, in light of the conversation about ownership, I think permission to fuck is the wrong word/concept to use.

And what position to fuck in...

The way I see it, it's more about loving more than one, and what that means for her life in general. Sharing sex is one aspect of love, but not the only one. The emotional entanglement has more of an impact, I'd say, than this or that place your genitals go on your lover's body. Heck, in some ways, oral sex is more intimate than penis in vagina, imo.

I think her husband is still coming to terms with the concept of loving more than one, no matter what she and these potentials do sexually, as shown by his "Aren't I enough for you?" questions.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62)
Pixie (poly, F, 40) together since 2009
My bf Kahlo (single, poly-friendly, M, 45) since August 2017
Seeing Rick and Glori (MF partnered, both 33 and poly) since September 2017
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