The only way my own little poly world ever could have worked was if my wife and the other woman involved, did know eachother and could hit it off and live together under one roof. That was exactly our case with perhaps her closest friend. A total outsider, a bimbo, would have never given me a snowball's chance for this relationship to succeed. I firmly think there must be a meet and everyone must mesh and get along for any hope of this to work over the long haul. Now if anyone just wants a poly partner for 6 weeks or months, well then anything goes and no one needs to give a rats ass about the other.
Last edited by Mark1npt; 07-03-2009 at 12:22 AM.