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Old 11-01-2013, 02:50 AM
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Hi. We are a poly couple happily married for 18 years living in northwest nj. We are here learning more about the poly life after bring open but not poly for most of our marriage. After both of us realized that we want love and relationships over casual encounters we switched gears and it instantly felt right. Our ideal is to find a female to join our home and life long term. Currently we are both dating females individually and looking for like minded friends. We welcome messages! A and c
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Old 11-01-2013, 06:40 AM
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Greetings DifferentPOV,
Welcome to our forum.

Seems like a good sign that you're dating individually; hopefully you'll find many like-minded friends on this site. Sounds like a triad is the kind of configuration you're hoping to arrive at. In case you ever receive that dreaded label "unicorn hunters," here's an article to help put it in perspective: http://davidlnoble.com/so-somebody-c...nicorn-hunter/

Hope you find the right woman for you and make lifelong friends with her. Glad you could join us.

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Old 11-01-2013, 11:22 AM
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Hi Kevin,

Thanks for the greeting and article. It is extremely frustrating that most bi females on okc and many poly people assume that we are looking for a threesome or someone "for us". That could not be further from the truth. It is a challenger everyday in trying to find dates as a couple and for me (A) the female half. With him he can at least date straight open females that don't have this preconceived issue. Peon ugh with that soapbox. Hoping to meet great people here and learn a few things. A
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Old 11-01-2013, 01:36 PM
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Hi Kevin,

Thanks for the greeting and article. It is extremely frustrating that most bi females on okc and many poly people assume that we are looking for a threesome or someone "for us".
Aaaah, so you are open to dating married women or women who date others?

Awesome.
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