how do i deal?

[Kraven]

If i'm in a monogamous relationship and i'm into things sexually that my partner isn't into...does that mean i can't do them if i'm with her? Or is there a way around it?

Things like orgies and group sex, dominatrix and role play...so forth and so on! Does being in a relationship with her mean that i must over look those particular fantasies in order to continue having a healthy relationship?