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Old 10-06-2013, 12:27 AM
blacksofa blacksofa is offline
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Default When do you tell your partner you are pursuing someone else?

Being new to this, I am curious at what point others tell their primary partner when they have an interest in someone else.

After the first date, before you pursue, first conversation...??

And when a good time would be to bring it up.

My main partner, boyfriend, basically...has expressed that he would like to know at first interest and I'm wondering how others do it. There is someone I am currently interested in but he lives about an hour away so I'm not sure I would actually pursue it. I am going to tell the boyfriend, since he expressed wanting to know, but I'm wondering what other people do in this case.

Would you tell your primary even if you weren't sure you were going to pursue...?
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