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View Poll Results: What is the configuration of your relationship?
Single 3 4.62%
Closed couple 5 7.69%
Swingers 0 0%
Couple and dating with no serious outside partners 8 12.31%
V, N, or etc 36 55.38%
Triad, quad, etc 9 13.85%
other 4 6.15%
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Old 09-29-2013, 05:45 AM
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We are in a closed FMF V, with my Hubby as the hinge.

Hubby and I have been married for 13 years
GF has been with hubby for 1 year.
GF and I have been slowly building a friendship for 3 months.

We try to have dinner together once a month as a chance to visit and figure out our group calendar.
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Old 09-29-2013, 03:44 PM
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Where a quad and loving it!
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Old 10-01-2013, 02:29 PM
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Open poly V - perhaps transitioning to W.

I have a husband and a boyfriend. Boyfriend has a new girlfriend who is married. Her husband is looking for another partner. Anyone is free to date if someone comes along but not actively "looking" - just keeping options open.
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Old 10-02-2013, 11:45 PM
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I am the hinge of a V. We tried the triad thing and my loves are sexually compatible but not cut out for a relationship.

I've been with my husband for 16 years and my wife for 16 months
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Old 10-03-2013, 02:46 PM
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I am a hinge of a V.

My husband is open for additional partners and looking, but not very actively.
Myself - I feel polysaturated with my two loves.
My OSO is mono and seems to be happy with me as his only partner.

In theory I want to keep things open for all possible opportunities in life; you never know whom you'll meet next...
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