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Old 09-21-2013, 03:09 PM
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Just saw my wife raise hell on her boyfriend. She went off on him for a good stretch over bad directions. He earned it to some extent.Nice to know I'm not the only one who has to deal with that. Heh heh.
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:12 PM
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Just saw my wife raise hell on her boyfriend. She went off on him for a good stretch over bad directions. He earned it to some extent.Nice to know I'm not the only one who has to deal with that. Heh heh.
Yuck. Is this a common occurrence?
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:26 PM
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Just saw my wife raise hell on her boyfriend. She went off on him for a good stretch over bad directions. He earned it to some extent.Nice to know I'm not the only one who has to deal with that. Heh heh.
WOW! Sorry for both of you. I can't see where an inadvertent action like poor directions ever warrants an such angry response. Is she like two?
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:29 PM
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Not really & don't read too much into it. Pretty harmless temper.
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Old 09-21-2013, 03:50 PM
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Ouch, being verbally abused is horrible and st not something I would put up with
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Old 09-21-2013, 04:00 PM
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Guys really thanks. But I've worked in shelters and outreach centers and psych hospitals. I understand the difference between somebody being abusive and somebody blowing off steam because a 3 hour car ride turned into a 4 hour car ride. We've been together 13 years. We're good.
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Old 09-21-2013, 04:08 PM
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Anger is a natural emotion. Some have lots longer fuses then others. Having "fights" is going to happen in any relationship. It's healthy. S and I do not argue often but when we do look out. LOL.
Glad that you see that the other side of the fence is the same color green.
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Old 09-21-2013, 04:12 PM
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Well whatever you are we willing to put up with
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Old 09-21-2013, 04:43 PM
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Guys really thanks. But I've worked in shelters and outreach centers and psych hospitals. I understand the difference between somebody being abusive and somebody blowing off steam because a 3 hour car ride turned into a 4 hour car ride. We've been together 13 years. We're good.
Thank you TRBG, nice to know that some people realise that not every raised voice is a sign of abuse and psychosis....eugh...too much 'delicate' about nowadays....
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Old 09-21-2013, 05:29 PM
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I was just going off what he posted in the OP. If someone "went off" on me over a "good stretch" for a simple mistake then I personally would feel abused. Probably just because I feel I deserve respect err "delicate"
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