Hello everyone, I am new to the forums and to polyamory.
I have been looking around the forums and I am glad to see that the discussions here are done with thoughtfulness, maturity and consideration for everyone concerned. I need that in a poly forum as I am very new to all this and am still finding my feet!
My partner and I recently decided to open up our 14 year relationship. The decision was mutual and it happened very organically, much to my amazement. I had been having thoughts of wanting to have new experiences for a while before, actually, and unbeknownst to me so had she. It kind of surprised me in a way, because she has always been intensely loyal and faithful, but now, after having had our first child, she is ready to let her hair down
I too am ready to start exploring this new world.
Thanks for reading, more soon!
Me: A, male, 39.
Her: S, female, 36, my LTR of 14 yrs.
A and S both straight.
Ours: one beautiful 3 yr old child.
Relationship status: recently opened.
Mine: not yet
Hers: B, male, 38, straight. A past love interest of S (unconsummated, with close calls) recently back in S's life.
B married to K, both mono. B has only hints of our open status.
B would probably have an affair with S if she pursued it - she is very sexy and seductive