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Old 09-17-2013, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted by ColorsWolf View Post
Thank you for the kind and so sweet response.~ I'm a little sensitive right now after having a lot people attack me for something I didn't even say...
So it's comforting to me to hear you speaking to me in such kinds words, I could use some kind words right now...~
You're welcome, but I really don't think this is a situation of a lot of people attacking you - many people were confused by your statements and asked for clarification, and instead received a reply stating that your comments were clear and being misinterpreted.

My point in my other response was that, regardless of how clear you think you're being, if a lot of people can't follow you, you may need to reevaluate what you're saying or how you're saying it. A teacher wouldn't be very successful if his students were confused, regardless of how clear he thought he was.

As for your question, it's worth exploring within your relationship(s). Talk about it and see what your partners think - maybe you'll be happily surprised.
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Me: 46/F, Divorced with 2 kids, 2 cats, fish, a tarantula, and a 1930s house with many projects.
Chops: 47/M, Partner of 6 years, lives half-time with me, half with Xena.
Spinner: 52/M, Friend I've been on a few dates with. Divorced, Mono, wrapping his head around it all.
Xena: 47/F, Chops' other nesting partner of 6 years
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