LovingRadiance
Active member
Dag-I think he meant the paintball activity to be "instead of leaving to be with a girlfriend" the problem of not doing his duty with the kids would still be the issue.
And
As I see it-
That is the issue.
Lets do it by the numbers:
You have a responsibility to put in a minimum of 12 hours a day with the twins. THeir mother has a responsibility to put in 12 hours a day with the twins.
These 12 hours are WAKING hours. They aren't including your time to sleep.
EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DAY.
Any "playtime" or "additional relationships" (which happens to include private, quality time with your spouse) comes AFTER the babies responsibility.
And
As I see it-
That is the issue.
Lets do it by the numbers:
You have a responsibility to put in a minimum of 12 hours a day with the twins. THeir mother has a responsibility to put in 12 hours a day with the twins.
These 12 hours are WAKING hours. They aren't including your time to sleep.
EVERY SINGLE SOLITARY DAY.
Any "playtime" or "additional relationships" (which happens to include private, quality time with your spouse) comes AFTER the babies responsibility.