Originally Posted by Duckshoes
Maybe we are unreasonable in wanting all of her attention and feeling hurt when she seeks others affection. I'm just not so sure that we can do it
Bingo. One thing i dislike in poly is when people have rules over someone else having multiple partners when you yourself do. im not immune to it, check out my thread "dating and committment among secondaries"
I just had moments of doubt over my boyfriend having others, there are some good responses on there to me that you may find helpful.
If you and your wife want polyfidelity with a third, it is probably unlikely.