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Old 08-31-2013, 05:53 PM
Dolly4you Dolly4you is offline
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I am an attractive, smart, consciously aware, spiritually connected lover who is honest and has a great sense of humors. I am a 45 year old bi-female who has been a serial monogamist for years until I met a guy a few years ago. He introduced me to swinging. It was new exciting and adventurous but not what I was looking for. I found that meaningless sex with strangers was a poor excuse for a spiritual connection. I realized that he was just a sex addict and wanted to run up his “numbers”, like a game. I have had other couples who are swingers tell that sex is just a sport to them. I was taken aback by our conversation but appreciated their honesty.

I did not have a name for what I was looking for until I started reading about Polyamory relationships. They are all unique and different, but some seem to be closer to how I believe love should be. When I came across this site and what Polyamory is not, I realized that I might be on the right track.

Polyamory does •not• include the following:
• Swinging (the garden variety involving NSA sex)
• One night stands
• Fuck buddies
• Friends With Benefits
• Cheating on a monogamous partner
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Old 08-31-2013, 07:43 PM
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Hi Dolly4you,
Welcome to our forum.

Sounds like you have the right idea about polyamory. It is all about relationships, commitment, falling in love, etc.

Have a look around on our site and see what interests you. Hopefully we can answer any questions you may have.

Kevin T.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"
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