I only managed to read the first page of replies to this. But, as a male... I got my first one word message. I figured women would be better at sending messages than men would... Possibly an offensive view, but I do view both genders as equal. But as a male, I feel like my version of messages vs. my SO's is that I'm short and to the point with no emotion and she can say stuff all poetic and nice.
So imagine my surprise when I had a message sent from a female on OKC that simply said: "Interested." Not as a question, but a single word statement. So I simply replied saying that I'm flattered that she was interested but at the same time I was offended that she didn't feel the need to actually SAY anything. Gave me the impression that since I'm male, I must be easy and desperate. I have feelings, lady!