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Old 02-09-2010, 05:26 PM
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I seem to be coming into a time of comfort and even greater optimism toward the future. I thrive when comfortable and so I feel healthy and happy....the future is looking much clearer to me now.
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Old 02-09-2010, 05:53 PM
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I went to Redpepper's for lunch today. She was sleeping and I just curled up next to her and experienced her energy in silence. I felt whole in just letting the entities inside us come together and was elated by the completeness I felt. I held her for an hour and then went back to work. This is a beautiful way to communicate, pure and unclouded...I left feeling happy and knowing there is more than one way to calm the aching I have for her.

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Old 02-16-2010, 04:19 AM
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That's beautiful Mon.
Last night Maca had to fly to Washington.
I curled up next to GG, with my head on his arm and went to sleep while he watched an old black and white movie. It was so nice to just curl up, safe and content and like you said-feel our love, spirits, energy meld.
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You forgot to mention the love affair that you are having with my cats... see, not so mono! The two cats curled up with us and one put his paw on my nose... tee hee, such loves.

We are going through some strange times lately and I am pushing you beyond measure. You are an amazing man Mono for being able to take what I dish out as just being nothing... to you it is sometimes huge... I forget that you have come a long way in understanding me and my life choices. I have to remember that I need to respect that we are very different and sometimes need to be more tactful (hey, I'm a Sagittarius... we are not the best at tact).

We are okay you and I... it will be okay, because we have moments of clear and consuming love for one another. Something that is rare and wonderful. We work everyday to keep that healthy. That is all we can do... all of us together.
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You forgot to mention the love affair that you are having with my cats... see, not so mono! .
What can I say? I have a weakness for pussies


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We are okay you and I... it will be okay, because we have moments of clear and consuming love for one another. Something that is rare and wonderful. We work everyday to keep that healthy. That is all we can do... all of us together.
We'll always have love...all of us

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Old 02-18-2010, 07:53 PM
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Yesterday Redpepper and I sat down for a coffee and a chat. Unfortunately she spent more time listening than getting to speak LOL! There has been a lot of stuff going on and I wanted to have a time to just let her know all the thoughts that have been circulating in my mind. These are the kind of thoughts that create distance if not shared which reduces the depth of our connection. Neither of us is happy unless we are at a very deep level which requires a lot of communication and honesty. I spoke about the journey we are on and its different possibilities. It is at times uncomfortable and embarrassing for me to talk about things that seem repetitive or without reason but it is incredibly important to broach these topics...to reset parts of the foundation of our relationship. We spoke about the positives and negatives, the excitement and hesitation.

I left feeling light and connected as I think she did as well.
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All of us in our chosen family are very big on looking deep into things, sharing and reasoning why we are so sure this was meant to be. This is a lot of work but it is who we are and why we are so sure that taking care of each other is meant to be our path.
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Thank you for sharing that. It's good to be reminded that there's nothing wrong with re-opening a discussion that you've had a hundred times before, just to make sure you're all still on the same page. This is something my husband and I struggle with: if we work something out once, we tend to think of it as having been dealt with, but sometimes things sneak out and I realize that I don't have complete closure with this or that issue.
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Old 02-18-2010, 10:32 PM
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It's good to be reminded that there's nothing wrong with re-opening a discussion that you've had a hundred times before, .
If that was the case, Redpepper would have dumped me ages ago!
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