Originally Posted by alinpaul
I will suggest it. I think that is a good step for him. He needs objectivity which I try my best at providing but is impossible to do.
UPDATE: he said he'd get an account on here after work. I've been here a few days and it's really helped me just from reading other posts.
Thank you all who have commented. Your thoughts are greatly appreciated!!
Excellent! It is not just a matter of how objective (or not) the spouse is - it is hearing different experiences and points of view til things start to click. One can be totally objective, but it is impossible to catalog all the knowledge.