Originally Posted by Bluebird
There's another poly guy that visited me but didn't message and I like his profile lots. I'm discouraged he didn't message. I think I will send my first initial contact message to him today.
Sometimes I prefer when they look but do not message right away. Might mean they are taking their time to really read and digest my profile, and make a few intelligent comments, or funny ones, or charming ones.
Sometimes when I am actually looking at okc, and a popup tells me someone is looking at me, and then I get a message a minute later, it's a guarantee he just looked at my pix.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years