Originally Posted by FullofLove1052
No wonder you feel crazy. It has only been a week since you found out about their months long affair and they are just carrying on like nothing happened? And this woman is in to to you after one face to face meeting? I would not expect immediate friendship either. Tell her to back the hell up and tell your husband what you need. Sweet baby Jesus in a bedazzled onesie. Why is she pushing for a relationship, intimate contact, or at the very least a friendship with you when she does not know you?
It is a good question. Perhaps she feels guilty - although she is not at fault? And / or perhaps in lying to the poly woman about his wife's knowing, he has talked about the wife to the poly woman and she *feels* like she knows the wife? Or some combination thereof.