Originally Posted by sparklepop
The only difficulty is that in poly, one relationship does tend to effect another, even in some small way. That doesn't mean that metamours have a right to decide what goes on *within* the relationship.... but of course, they do have a right to freedom of speech and voicing their needs and wants.
I'm not sure I understand exactly what you mean with the bold part. Can you give a hypothetical for what you would be ok with in this regard? I'm just curious.
While a person does have the freedom to stick their nose in my business unsolicited, they are also going to be free to hear me tell them to remove their nose from my business (I might even say it nicely the first time).