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Old 07-26-2013, 07:08 PM
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Always promote communicating!


Sometimes what appears obvious-isn't.

We have had people think some of our stipulations were red flags because it LOOKS like a control pattern from the outside.
But-once they are in the friend zone (at least) they see that we are all truly committed to our kids and our individual personal relationships with the kids-it isn't a partner control issue-it's a personal decision. We choose to prioritize our family time with our kids. Potentials are welcome to JOIN-but we don't cancel our time with our kids to go out on dates.

Anyway-definitely great job on communicating.
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