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Old 07-14-2013, 03:53 AM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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I beat myself up because I think he is not content, and it is my fault. But no, now I see that better.
Glad you see that better. Could stop beating yourself up.

You own and process your feelings. He owns and processes his feelings. There's going to A LOT of feelings to get through here in the stages of grief as you both move through transition.

You both are gonna have feelings. Could remember emotions are just internal weather. Rain is rain, sun is run. Could let it blow on through and do its job to clear the air and stop fighting the weather.

It's just a limit of the universe that some emotional weather is yummy to feel and some is not so fun. So? Eventually it stops raining. Patience.

Hang in there.

Galagirl
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