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Old 07-06-2013, 02:43 AM
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And yes, I knew she had veto power & he would allow it. I didn't know he'd be a douchebag about not meeting my conditions for seeing me one last time. That has just added insult to injury. All part of the learning experience. I will get past it & use what I learned next time. I don't always get caught up in NRE like I did with guy...didn't happen with last guy, he got caught up but I didn't. And hindsight is 20/20 so I'm having all these insights now but it's not like I was saying this shit to myself in the forefront of my mind all along exactly. KWIM?
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Old 07-06-2013, 06:36 PM
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London made a specific comment on it so I think he cared.

I'm exhausted & on an emotional rollercoaster. I'm not planning on seeing him anytime soon, I was planning on seeing him & recently changed my mind as I've thought this through. It's a process.
Ah the classic "she doesn't understand me so she must be a man".
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Old 07-06-2013, 10:09 PM
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Ah the classic "she doesn't understand me so she must be a man".
No it's the classic, you don't understand b/c you didn't bother to read what I wrote & are a heartless jerk.
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Old 07-07-2013, 12:32 AM
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Looks like a good time for everyone to take some time out and reconsider how they address and treat each other on this forum!
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