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View Poll Results: What type of poly origin did you have?
I've always had poly tendencies and never really took to monogamy 19 11.95%
I've always had poly tendencies and tried to be monogamous before 54 33.96%
I fell in love with a poly person and have adapted to the lifestyle 22 13.84%
I read or heard about someone else's poly experiences and thought it could work for me 15 9.43%
Other 49 30.82%
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Old 07-05-2013, 07:54 AM
Jac Jac is offline
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Default A lot of questions..

I've only recently found that I am polyamorous and I have a lot of questions, if anyone can lend me some advice.

Most importantly, I'm currently in a monogamous relationship that saw its first year only a month ago. How do I tell him? I don't want him to feel as if there is something wrong with him or as if he doesn't satisfy me, which is partially my fear of what will happen. I've just come to realize that I'm not happy with just one partner. I mean, I am for a time but then I feel as if I want more. My boyfriend makes me happy but I need more, how do I convey this effectively?

For right now, that's the most important question for me and I'm sort of freaking out.. I love him and I want to be with him, but I also need to concern myself with me. Thanks in advance..
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