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Old 06-26-2013, 09:44 PM
InsaneMystic InsaneMystic is offline
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I wouldn't ever want to know the bedroom details of my partner and other folks she's with (what Nadya called #2). I'd certainly want to know if and when other partners of hers enter the picture, though (what Nadya called #1).

So, part of DADT is definitely my preferred model (I'd find it both oversharing and a breech of the other's privacy not to keep bedroom details to yourself - in that way, DADT is just a part of what I'd call loving respect, and for myself, I couldn't really see a healthy ship work without it);
and another part of it is something I don't want at all (I don't see poly/open arrangements work out running on secrets and a lack of honesty).
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