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Old 06-23-2013, 05:37 PM
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Ok so I thought things were getting better but obviously not.
Their child started kicking me so I held her in a way that she couldn't hurt me. He then proceeds to start hollering at me about getting dishes done and laundry and taking a batj so I don't even have a clue wtf I am being yelled at about I ask and get more no answers butyelled at and I am standing here crying doing dishes because I dont know what to do.
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Get out while the getting is good any way that you can. Sounds like a controlling/abusive relationship and no one should have to enure that.
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Old 06-23-2013, 05:41 PM
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Are all poly cpls like this? Do they treat the third like she can't do anything right?
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No, our lovely unicorn is treated as an equal in all things within the family.
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Old 06-23-2013, 05:51 PM
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No, our lovely unicorn is treated as an equal in all things within the family.
And yet you refer to her as a Unicorn....*sigh*
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Old 06-23-2013, 07:10 PM
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Ok, then does little wife sound any better to you?

And really, you want to focus in on that instead of supporting the fact that slave driving poly couples are not the norm. Sure if you've got the whole Dom/sub thing going and thats your bag.

At least in our household our (girlfriend, little wife, unicorn, significant other) is treated as an equal in all matters.

Which means there is hope for the damsel in distress if she hasn't gotten a bad taste in her mouth at this point for the poly lifestyle.
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"little wife" sounds "unequal" too but if that 's your "bag" then hey roll with it.

The OP of this thread (assuming everything taken at face-value) is dissatisfied with their situation. Whether or not "all poly couples" ("poly couples" is a contradiction-in-terms whether anyone agrees does not make it less of a reality) are "this way" or "that way" has nothing to do with this weirdness. "All poly couples" are not incapable of having children thE old-fashioned way and do thos predatory behaviour. The problem with the OP is not "poly couples", it is a mentally and emotionally instable female with baby-rabies and a malfunctioned reproductive organ system.

I wsh that humans and females in particular would get free from this mindless hormonal prison of "aurgh durrr M.U.S.T M.A.K.E M.O.A.R B.A.B.B.Y"

But you can't SAY that, oh oops i just did! I guess you CAN say THAT after all.
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Old 06-23-2013, 07:58 PM
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Ok, then does little wife sound any better to you?
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Little wives, at least, do exist!
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Her friend is rescuing her today, anyway.
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Old 06-24-2013, 06:53 AM
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R.E.S.C.U.E.

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Oh no no no

yeah yeah yeah
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Old 06-24-2013, 07:33 AM
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Her friend is rescuing her today, anyway.
She said and we can hope but she spent so long making excuses to not leave, that it's hard to believe she actually will do it.
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Old 06-24-2013, 09:02 AM
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She said and we can hope but she spent so long making excuses to not leave, that it's hard to believe she actually will do it.
Anyone who can type with one hand and wash dishes with the other at the same time is a keeper.
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