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Old 06-22-2013, 05:41 PM
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Default Changing needs and priorities

Vanilla and Pistachio are in the process of changing their relationship dynamics from primary to secondary, with him eventually moving out. This might take a full year, though.

It will mean that both me and Vanilla lack a primary while dating each other in a secondary mindset. It's new and exciting, first time I will be flying solo in the poly world.

I've noticed that my needs and priorities have changed when it comes to poly. I no longer find it necessary to have a primary of my own in order to be a good secondary.
Me: bi female in my twenties
Dating: Moonlightrunner
Metamour: Windflower
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