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Old 06-17-2013, 07:59 AM
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We are in Nevada. I already spoke with a lawyer.
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If you are unmarried and there is no court order about custody, the mother is presumed to have sole legal and physical custody.
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Complaint for Custody: This also starts a case in Family Court. If you are unmarried and there is no dispute who the natural father of your child is, a court order of custody can be obtained by filing a Complaint for Custody.
Complaint for Paternity: This also starts a case in Family Court. If you are unmarried, the court first determines who is the father or your child (known as "adjudicating" or establishing paternity) and then can issue an order concerning custody. (See Section 9 of this manual for more information about paternity.)
Nothing could stop the husband to start a court order after establishing paternity, you only automatically get custody IF he chooses not to do that. Nevada law favours joint custody btw.
http://www.lacsn.org/domestic-violen...al-information

I presume that this couple have more resources than you do? They can easily take this child, you just started a thread in which they basically lock you out of a room and watch TV together and you still believe they have your best interests at heart?

Come on...you are not that naive surely?
She is 46 years old and infertile, they want your WOMB!!! Not you....but if you want to believe you are in some sort of healthy relationship and you will be all raising this child together than go right ahead and give these people a baby and watch them take it!!!
And perhaps than you might learn the hard way.

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Old 06-21-2013, 08:59 AM
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I would probably flee as soon as I knew I was pregnant. I would flee somewhere they would not even think about looking.
I pretty much have decided I don't want a child with them when they said if I ever left the child would stay .....ummmm nope wrong answer. He said he would hunt me down welll I amnot afraid of him. Once I am in another state if the baby is born in that statw that states law supercedes the law of the fathers residence. That came straight from my attorney.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:04 AM
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Listen, you do whatever you want. I don't care any more.
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Old 06-21-2013, 09:17 AM
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I would probably flee as soon as I knew I was pregnant. I would flee somewhere they would not even think about looking.
I pretty much have decided I don't want a child with them when they said if I ever left the child would stay .....ummmm nope wrong answer. He said he would hunt me down welll I amnot afraid of him. Once I am in another state if the baby is born in that statw that states law supercedes the law of the fathers residence. That came straight from my attorney.
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So you intentionally want to conceive a child who will have a strained relationship, if any, with it's father?
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Old 06-21-2013, 10:58 AM
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I would probably flee as soon as I knew I was pregnant.
Then why stay now? If it's not a healthy arrangement for a child, how does it look like a healthy one for you?
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Old 06-21-2013, 11:05 AM
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How do you have the money for a lawyer but not to gyro of there?
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Old 06-21-2013, 07:15 PM
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Lawyer gave me a free consult through legal aid.
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Old 06-23-2013, 04:29 AM
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I would probably flee as soon as I knew I was pregnant. I would flee somewhere they would not even think about looking.
I pretty much have decided I don't want a child with them when they said if I ever left the child would stay .....ummmm nope wrong answer. He said he would hunt me down welll I amnot afraid of him. Once I am in another state if the baby is born in that statw that states law supercedes the law of the fathers residence. That came straight from my attorney.
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If you have a baby with these creeps, you will just be a fucking statistic and Jerry Springer material.

SNAP OUT OF IT! WAKE UP! YOU ARE BEING FOOLISH IF YOU STILL CONSIDER IT!

MOVE OUT! Ugh, where is your common sense and self-esteem????? Seriously, I can't take it anymore. I really fear for the state of this planet when children are being brought into the world by people without a clue!
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