I'm Marianne and quite new to the poly world. It isn't a new way of thinking and feeling for me, but I haven't explored this before. There has always just been this ”different” way of thinking about love and relationships, that not many I know share. I think I have wrecked a couple of relationships not knowing ”what is wrong”. I stumbled into polyamory through my sister-in-law, who is also poly.
I'm married and my husband is ok with me being poly. We have agreed on that communication and openness are the keys to happiness, as they should be whether you are poly or mono
At the moment I'm in a mono relationship, but who knows...