Originally Posted by onoma
So you think it's monogamous behavior to truthfully tell someone you love them while you're dating other people?
It's just behaviour.
You didn't even answer my question. The question was, what difference does it make which adjective you put before the word "behaviour"?
THE TWO OF YOU ARE FUNDAMENTALLY INCOMPATIBLE AS PARTNERS.
THe sooner you realize that, the better off you both will be.
I've read your other threads. You aren't going to get an answer from here that you can go and use on your girlfriend and make her go
"AHA! Eureka! YES! That which I did not realize before is now crystal clear to me before my very eyes! You are RIGHT, my darling! I AM "poly" after all! THank you, thank you THANK you for patiently staying by my side and enduring the roller-coaster ride I put us through. It shall be WORTH all the wait, confusion, and hardship we have been through, for now we are together and stronger for the duration! I now look forward to this new journey we are about to take TOGETHER, and with whomever else shall manifest to journey with us... blah,blah,etc.etc."
That IS what you would prefer, is it not?