Originally Posted by BoringGuy
We don't always avoid them, but we can learn ways to deal with them, and avoid repeating them.
True... And that helps quite a bit.
It's tough to find people in my particular position (mono who *didn't* come into poly via a preexisting partner - someone who started a poly relationship at the same time as their partner/metamour), so when I see anything that resembles our situation I definitely take notice.
Hm. Makes me think strongly about starting a blog thread for anyone else in my situation, since it'd be nice for people to feel like they're not anomalies. Thanks, BG.