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Old 05-20-2013, 02:54 AM
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My husband and I are completely new to the poly thing, but are trying it because he is extremely sexual and I am finally accepting/admitting that I am asexual.

I wanted to join this site to get some support and insight on how to approach this new (to us) kind of relationship. So far I have been ok with it, even feeling compersion, but he's only been on a couple first dates and no second dates yet. That may change soon, though and I'd like to have someplace to ask questions about it all.

I am also on the forums at AVEN with the same user name. In fact, someone over there directed me here.

Anyway, just wanted to say, "Hello," and give a small introduction.
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Asexual woman married to J, a very sexual/kinky man. I'm unemployed and home alone most of the time so I tend to get a little stir crazy.

J and I are completely new to poly and trying it out to get both our needs met without abandoning our relationship, which works tremendously well on every other level.

J has recently started dating L and says he thinks he loves her. I am alternately happy and terrified about it.
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Old 05-20-2013, 05:33 AM
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Welcome! I'm glad to see you posting here. My username is different here, but we've talked on AVEN and you probably know who I am.
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Old 05-20-2013, 07:20 PM
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Hello, I posted on Aven about Poly once, it is nice to see some people come over here and ask for advice. I am not Asexual myself but was very happy to see an Asexual group march at Pride last year.
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Old 05-20-2013, 07:45 PM
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Thanks Natja! I've found people here to be very welcoming and kind. I hope you found the same at Aven. I'd love to see an Ace group in my local pride parade. That would be very exciting!
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Asexual woman married to J, a very sexual/kinky man. I'm unemployed and home alone most of the time so I tend to get a little stir crazy.

J and I are completely new to poly and trying it out to get both our needs met without abandoning our relationship, which works tremendously well on every other level.

J has recently started dating L and says he thinks he loves her. I am alternately happy and terrified about it.
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Old 05-22-2013, 11:36 PM
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Greetings KittenPuff,
Welcome to our forum.

Poly has so much to offer, and your situation gives one example. I hope we are able to answer your questions and address any concerns.

Good to have you aboard.
Sincerely,
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