He's not poly??? A year into the relationship?
After being with Darling for awhile. Dealing with his breakup with his other GF Chatty. His wife. Moving in with him. He tells me he doesn't think he is poly. That he "fell into" it. That is was easier than being mono at the time.
Effectively we have been mono since he broke up with Chatty three months ago. His wife has chilled out and they hardly have contact anymore. Now I am starting to talk to others and he has told me that he doesn't think he is poly. He is okay with me having sex with others but the thought of me having an "intimate" relationship bothers him.
I just don't know what to do.