Hello, all. I've been lurking for quite a while. I don't really know what to say... I'm 31, married, with kids. My husband and I made a go at polyamory, but it seems to have failed. And left me devastated and questioning. I don't know if I'll ever sort out my thoughts enough (or get up the guts) to post my story here, but I thought this was a good start. I guess I'm just looking for a community of people who won't say things like "Well, that's what happens when you go outside your marriage." when I tell them what happened.
So, anyhow. Hello.