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Old 04-27-2013, 12:23 AM
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Natja Natja is offline
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Oh no, I am on board too. This has all levels of wrongness attached to it. Confused about the monogamous in the signature thing too.
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Old 04-29-2013, 12:51 AM
BoringGuy BoringGuy is offline
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Originally Posted by BaggagePatrol View Post
It is SO creepy BG - for once we seem to be completely in agreement.
Oh good, the less we agree, the better i feel about myself.
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Old 04-30-2013, 01:35 PM
Dirtclustit Dirtclustit is offline
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Default That is creepy

It reminds me of this guy I had never even met, but knew through Myspace, who got insanely jealous about another myspace friend whom I had also never met who didn't even live in the same state. His messages always dripped with anger that was unsaid, until one day he finally exploded and starting telling me "were you there when I stayed up with her all night so she wouldn't kill herself, where were you when...?"

and I hadn't even met the girl in person yet. I found out later he had hacked my account and was reading every conversation and then it was clear when he would suddenly get all upset out of the blue.

The problem with people who lie to you, is you never know what is the truth, I don't know anybody can live like that
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Old 07-15-2013, 02:48 PM
snowbunnie snowbunnie is offline
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Firstly, I want to say that I am sorry for disappearing. A lot has changed since I first posted this.

Let me start with: I am single.

Ben and I are no longer together and when he left me, he threw me out and I was forced to travel 1200 miles on my motorcycle alone back home from Texas to Georgia.

I am okay, the trip was fun and I did enjoy myself.

It has been a month since we separated and I am so much happier. I see that he was a liar and will never change. I have come to accept that, and that he and I will never be together again. I am much happier and I am not seriously dating or anything, just trying to take life one day at a time and get my life back together.

Thank you for all the advice and encouragement. It is really appreciated.

21yr old poly female; single and happy
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Old 07-15-2013, 03:03 PM
GalaGirl GalaGirl is offline
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Though I'm sorry for the dramatic sounding ending since endings could be cleaner... I am very glad you are ok, relocated, and much happier! Good for you!

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Old 07-15-2013, 07:56 PM
Flear Flear is offline
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i red the start and couldn't get my head out of the gutter, ...

red a bit more and this helped to clear my head up.

yes, your in a much better place without him. initially thoughts of "he sent a sex toy ?" that's something minor, ... he sent your sex toy?, uhmmm, (does she know?), ... he's getting pictures of her with it ?, why can't he be looking at you ?, ... he's keeping all this secret from you ???

sounds like this other lady has plans to get together with ben ... without you.

sucks to hear you had to go through all that.
good to hear you got rid of people that were not looking out for you.
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