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Old 04-11-2013, 09:17 AM
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It depends on the intimacy with a person, I don't expect privacy from bloke I met yesterday who works behind the deli counter, but if I am seeing someone or they are my best friend and I am sharing something private with them, than yes. I don't give a toss if they are married to someone, that doesn't give that partner an automatic right to know 'MY' business.

Being pretty sure that a girlfriend is not going to be offended (which is an assumption btw), is not the same as being quite clear that you are reading everything she writes just because you want to!

If people make it clear that this is what they are doing than fair enough, people can choose whether or not they want to correspond with you, my complaint is when people do not make it clear but instead say their status as a married couple should make this 'obvious' It doesn't and it is not right.
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