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Old 04-10-2013, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
Put your foot down and tell her, "Listen, I know you think you're doing me some kind of favor by saying these things, but if I can't talk to you about poly, about someone who is important to me, and how happy I am to have her in my life, then you don't get to tell me these second-hand little horror stories that you seem to think proves some point and defends your opinion. Do not go there or we'll have nothing to talk about at all. If you don't want to listen to me, I don't want to listen to you."
This is so true, I hadn't thought of it like that.
franchescasc-33, bi female, likely monogomish formerly in triad relationship with:
FJ-36, married 15 yrs
MD-35, gf for 8 months
Currently dating SM, male, 40, monogamous
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted by franchescasc View Post
Not that it is, but in her mind I've betrayed who she thinks of me as.
You are absolutely NOT obligated to live up to someone else's idea of who you are.
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