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Old 04-09-2013, 02:58 AM
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I like these responses. I completely agree with them too.
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Old 04-09-2013, 05:02 AM
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I like these responses. I completely agree with them too.
OMG that's refreshing to hear, but it doesn't lead to good reality-TV ratings, just letting you know.
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Old 04-09-2013, 04:59 PM
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Yes, the responses here are lovely.

I'm in a similar situation to the OP (evad) in that I am interested in continuing and deepening a relationship (a person who we both know and love, but as both men are straight the sexual desire is just me) and it's so helpful to hear about how others handle things.
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Old 04-16-2013, 04:29 PM
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I wanted to come back and thank everyone for the responses in this thread.

I'm much more secure in my relationship with T now, and it was adjusting to the lack of a hierarchy.

I have learned that I don't have to compete for T's time and attention. I just need to be available and/or to ask for it.

I've only had a handful of relationships, so taking on two (and by extention 7!) at the same time is a big learning curve!
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