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Old 04-06-2013, 12:27 AM
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We still haven't found a house. My lease is up May 5 and if we don't get something soon, I can either go month to month in my apt, or leave, have all my stuff moved to Ginger's barn, and move in with miss pixi. So stressful.

We have 3 applications going now. One for a house we haven't even toured yet, just saw pictures! Seeing it tomorrow.

I did make a new friend though, getting back to the topic of polyamory. About one month ago, this super cute, just my type guy viewed my okc profile. A day or so later, I PMed him very casually and friendly-like. He wrote right back, and then we exchanged emails and have been PMing. I'll call him Blondie. He's 29, just my height (5'7"), long streaky blond hair and a close trimmed ginger beard, slim, huge blue eyes. sigh...

He is very nice, well spoken, he can spell, he's smart and gentle seeming. However, he has a sort of gf who is telling him she's poly, but I think she's really just fucking around, and he's feeling quite hurt. I offered a shoulder, and my own poly experience. He's shy, introverted, she's only his 3rd gf. He had 2 others for years each and some periods of being single. Not a playah.

After several emails he asked me to meet him. I suggested the beautiful Mt Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, as he seems to be a nature lover and the day we picked (Easter) was warm. Well, it was a fun date, conversation flowed very easily. I guess he just wants a friend, at least for now, as he's all fussed and hurt about this girl. Well, OK, I'm househunting and totally stressed. Not really in a position to start up with a new bf right now.

But DAMN, he's cute and nice! When I showed miss pixi his photos on okc, she was all, "Ooh, he's pretty! Can we keep him?"

I emailed him yesterday to say I'd had fun and he wrote back today saying he had a wonderful time.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 62), dating... again!
Pixi (poly, F, 40) my darling nesting partner since January 2009
Master, (mono, M, 36), Pixi's Dom/bf since April 2013
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