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[BoringGuy]

Originally Posted by Malfunktions

I do understand, and I'm not saying I'm not guilty of doing the same thing. I made a similar if not a little nicer post when I first came to the site, which I'm realizing was potentially unattainable and will be removing later.
After doing a lot of research and coming to the realization that I ave no idea what I'm doing I hope that I do not repeat the above mention faux pas.

As a senior member for a military youth organization I have found healthy and constructive criticism goes a long way. Hopefully everyone can adapt to the guidelines and poly-etiquette. There a lot to know/learn/act to be appropriate.

Just relax, hang out and read. before too much longer, you too will recognize the unicorn-hunters (see the personals ads section of this site, there are about an average of 5 posts per day about that on there), and you too will be rolling your eyes and thinking "Oh another one? I used to be one too..."

Then you will be one of US instead of one of THEM.

[LastLion290]

I can understand this a lot, actually.

As one of maybe a dozen poly people I know across the entire state I'm in (and one of maybe half that that's in my opinion good examples of poly) I regularly don't go "looking" for another person in the relationship as much as I wind up still being open to flirting and other connections with people, whether they're poly or not - and, well, if they're interested in a connection with me, then I get to explain "Hey, there's this Polyamory thing...I'm open to a deeper relationship if you are."

This is a lot harder than it sounds, but then what isn't when it comes to Poly stuff?

[undefinable]

Originally Posted by boringguy

then you will be one of us instead of one of them.

one of us, one of us, one of us :d