Gf is ordering me to stop sleeping with my Bf. WTF?

[Natja]

Originally Posted by hellokitty

I cannot stand even the idea of being controlled or told what to do........................... Bf is ok w me being w other women but not men..................gf and I play w other women sometimes but she's not ok w me being w anyone alone.

Is it me or does this all seem a bit contradictory? The OP has already allowed herself to be somewhat controlled by the people in her relationship so maybe they feel they have the right to lay down the law?
I think it would help if they all sat down and re-worked all these expectations.