Not sure if this is the place for this but how does this sound as a coming out post? Keep in mind I live very far away from almost all of my family and friends ( I live in California but am from Florida and I am only fb friends with about 50 people. All real life friends and family, no one I don't really know.)
I know this isn't really Facebook appropriate, but I want to make as many people as possible in my life aware at once. I am in an additional relationship with someone -T-. We love each other and he is an important part of my life. Labels are difficult and usually not accurate but the closest title is "boyfriend". -J- is still and always will be my soulmate and we have a love and bond that nothing in the universe could ever change. Again labels are stupid, I have never thought "husband" accurately defines all that J is to me. J and I feel this is a natural evolution of ourselves and things we have been interested in almost since the beginning. The three of us respect each other, are aware of all aspects of the relationships, and want them to succeed. I welcome any and all comments, viewpoints, and questions with the exception of direct disrespect to me, J, or T.