Confused about my reaction
So we recently entered into a relationship as a few of you know (Rhaenes and Sonas) are my two girlfriends now. And since Sonas is studying abroad and Rhaenes and I are back home, i figured she could have her fun and be open sexually if she wanted to, she is her own person after all and it hadnt bothered me before. She slept with one guy and i didnt blink an eye, i asked her how it was made a few jokes whatever. I was happy i wasnt getting too jealous and i could deal with it.
Come a few weeks later and she sleeps with another boy, but this time it struck a chord and i felt very upset for about a day. I have my theories as to why it upset me, The first guy i had met via skype and knew what he looked like and sort of his personality and she told me it was like forced upon them by a third friend who just said "hint hint you guys should sleep together" and it didnt seem like a threat and she didnt really enjoy it. I think why this second guy bothered me was because i didnt have a face to put to him, and i didnt hear about how it was/how she felt very soon afterwards and i felt a little betrayed.
Like the first guy it was "haha guess what i was forced to do xD" and the second guy was "hey he's over in my room tonight" it was just different for some reason.