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Old 02-18-2013, 06:28 AM
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I think I relate to your gf.. seriously that is me.. and I am learning to scale back.. any more info would be appreciated on maybe some things that helped her scale back... I am one that likes interactions, and conversation even if it is mundane makes me feel like were still connected.. again.. I haven't did a background intro on my self which i really need too.. but due to my youth I was left alone almost half my life, until I met T.. I can't stand to be alone. nor can I stand not to have interaction.. so with that.. I relate to your gf.. how ever I don't think I fall hard and fast.. I am cautious but need the but I do come in hard and heavy.. so thanks for posting this .. I am learning self control now.. hell I am learning a lot more about self then Imagined I would right now it must be a growth time.. any how Thanks again for posting this..
Well I should point out that she hasn't turned this around entirely, just that she's learned how to have "a relationship" where she didn't have to be together all the time. She's still completely that way with her husband. But he is, too, so it works out fine for them.

And, well, medication. She's also bipolar.
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Old 02-18-2013, 02:45 PM
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Well what a bummer.. Sorry to hear that she has condition of bipolar, and I'm sure it works great for you all.. Just hoping I can learn to scale back my self..
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Old 02-19-2013, 03:02 AM
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Feeling good today. Been giving MD some space & gentle nudges, and being reaffirmed about our relationship. Feels good. Still unsure of the future, but right now we are on the same page. No need to look into a crystal ball
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Old 02-19-2013, 03:09 AM
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The present is the most important moment. Glad to hear that yours is going well.
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