Dating not just humping

[COSindustry]

Okay I have always just lived poly, never really found anything online or looked. there is a reason for our recent outing online that may come out one day.

Seriously though is there such thing as romantic polyamory? it is ridiculous. We have recently joined some websites: alt.com (yes we are BDSM freaks :P) Polyamory date and a few smaller ones. they are so sex based and crazy. We just want some courtship, a date, some romance is it to much to ask to find a single girl that wants to be treated like a princess and a whore :P

[CattivaGattina]

I'm confused from your post. Are you a couple looking for a single girl to date the two of you? If so are you expecting her to not date others as well?

Those could be part of your problem. I don't know what you mean about not finding romantic polyamory because the amory part of the word does stand for love which generally includes romance.

I think more information needs to be provided in order to actually help you out.

[UtahPolyCouple]

Polyamory is about non-monogamous love. Love and romance is an important part of that. Many of the dating / lookup sites that claim to be polymers friendly are just a cover for making money.

[BoringGuy]

Originally Posted by UtahPolyCouple

Polymers is about non-monogamous love. Love and romance is an important part of that. Many of the dating / lookup sites that claim to be polymers friendly are just a cover for making money.

actually "polymers" are long-chain carbon-based molecules with repeating units that are the basic components in plastics and other synthetic materials..

[UtahPolyCouple]

Lol I meant polyamory. My phone decided differently.

[BoringGuy]

Originally Posted by UtahPolyCouple

Lol I meant polyamory. My phone decided differently.

yeah i thought that's prob'ly what happened but i couldn't stop myself, it was begging for it.

[SchrodingersCat]

Originally Posted by BoringGuy

actually "polymers" are long-chain carbon-based molecules with repeating units that are the basic components in plastics and other synthetic materials..

*giggle*

Except they don't have to be carbon-based. Silicones use Si and O as the chain links, although I concede that they do contain organic side groups.

[SchrodingersCat]

Originally Posted by COSindustry

Okay I have always just lived poly, never really found anything online or looked. there is a reason for our recent outing online that may come out one day.

Seriously though is there such thing as romantic polyamory? it is ridiculous. We have recently joined some websites: alt.com (yes we are BDSM freaks :P) Polyamory date and a few smaller ones. they are so sex based and crazy. We just want some courtship, a date, some romance is it to much to ask to find a single girl that wants to be treated like a princess and a whore :P

I, too, don't understand what you're really asking. Are you saying "romantic polyamory" is ridiculous? Or that the internet is ridiculous when you attempt to look for it?

And probably... looking for someone to treat like a whore will be an obstacle in finding a romantic princess...

[BoringGuy]

Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat

*giggle*

Except they don't have to be carbon-based. Silicones use Si and O as the chain links, although I concede that they do contain organic side groups.

yeah, i thought of that after i wrote it, but i wasn't aiming for thoroughness, i was just trying to be a smartass.