He kinda doesn't want to know that something is happening but it is because of his issues with sex. Whenever we did have sex it was with the lights off, missionary style and it was always the same. At times it was very awkward.
I know he has had times when he is horny, I really don't know what to make of him sometimes. I try to back off and not pressure him, I do hope someday he will get the help he needs.
I found this forum because I have no one close to talk to about this. My family is ultra conservative and religious and so are most of my friends. It is not easy.